Monday, 9 May 2016

Random thought ( 8 )

Count your age by friends, Not Years ,
Count your life by Smiles, Not tears

-- Gautam Gulati ( Actor )

Learn from everything

learn from day to day life. ...

in each nd everyday passing day , in each nd every passing hour , in each nd every passing sec  .... we come in contact with so many things , so many people , so many ups nd downs ....

but we never realize why they happen or even sometime we ignore them or they just get passed without us noticing them.
they all come nd go to make us learn , to make us teach , to make us realize .... what benefit we take from all those people , from all those ups nd down ......

stop for a sec nd observe situation around u , observe things going around u , observe people around u ....
nd now when u stop nd observe , it depend on u how u want to learn or what u want to learn. ..
for example if u show a person smoking , it depend on u to learn that it will dangerous on the long run of life or u want to learn that it will make away the temporay problem of ur life ( which also not even for few days....)

it depend on u how u take a breakup with ur love one  as.....u can learn as it a experience to avoid mistak u made in this realtion or may be u dont  learn anythings and continue nd repeat the same mistak again or make urself pity ......

even if there are bad time of life , just think why its is happening to me , then say to urself maybe becoz so I can learn something from It nd in future if I come across this type of problem again I will already be ready with a sloution of that ( yeah think like that , be postive ).....

everthing that happen with us in life come Is to teach us something that what experience is defined as.....

there are many day to day examples I can put but I want u to realize what u learn from all around u....
nd try to learn postive nd accept everything as a learner .... dont think that person in smaller in age in us or he doesnt have claas to tell us something..... no dont do that .....

just observe them nd listen or see what all around u is happening nd try to gain
from every bit of moment u live nd experience even if its a bad or good part of life....

just dont miss the opportunity to learn ....

-- Prateek Kumar agarwal ( thats me ;-) )

Happy mothers day


"Mother" the word itself define all the emotion one can feel about love nd care a person can show nd give...  happy mothers day... MOM 

Wednesday, 4 May 2016

Don't ignore

》 I found one of my classmate is feeling low becoz of the comments made by other classmates. ..

after the class I saw him not coming out of the class , I even ask him to come with us bro but he refuses by saying that he will be out in few min , so I leaved but when I was going I found he is in no mood to come out ,
I don't know but I suddenly go again in class nd with tone of ordering him I said  to just come out with us nd dont listen to what other said...
he was not convinced nd kept on saying that he need to complete the work , but his face can tell me that what I was telling him he excatly feel that. ...
so I grab his copy nd stop him whatever he is doing nd make him leave the class with us...
I feel great about this becoz even we r not that best frnd but I perfectly done what a normal frnds should do....nd I didn't ingore a person in problem but I manage myself to help him even by littile......

-- Prateek Kumar agarwal ( thats me ;-) )

Monday, 2 May 2016

Dream my dad see for me

I am currently pursuing my btech nd till now I haven't realize what my dad is going through to let me study ...

now when I realize , I know its late ( but not too much )...

I can still cover up what he want me to be....
...

below what I have written will make me realize how much he had spend on me in this btech journey....nd it will give me motivation nd inspiration nd focus on my goal.....

total amount of btech fee
457060 ( four lakh fifty seven thousand sixty rupees)

total bus fee
72000 ( seventy two thousand )

all other expenses to max
100000 ( one lakh approx )

total expenses
629060 ( six lakh twenty nine thousand sixty approx)

nd what I given ....
nothing
nil ( zero ).....

but I still can by ...

hardwork in studies nd be focus in what my ulimate goal is.( to get success nd yes a very good bank balance )

they don't want there money back , they just want to see that they had made there son something in life.....

nd just want me to earn good so I will survive or live better in this real world with respect.

nd for a person who earn only 8500 ( eight thousand five hundred rupess ) per month only as his salary , is a very big dream to see nd even he is not seeing it for himself but for me ( yeah that person is my dad )...

nd I  want there this dream come true .....

nd I will fullfil this dream nd all his dream too which he saw for himself too...

-- Prateek Kumar agarwal ( thats me ;-) )

Sunday, 1 May 2016

WE JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LISTEN

just want someone to listen

just want someone to be there

there is no person in this entire world who doesn't got any problem or any sort of  pain in their life......

everyday I came in contact with so many people nd everyone is busy with their life , there problem , their pain , their moment of happiness , their moments of joy ( I am writing moments In all good things becoz for how long happiness is with us it doesn't count when we feel pain in life nd all this happeniess seem to some moments of our life which doesn't last long )

even if we are surrounded by a lot of people or frnds around we feel no one is there nd we start searching for the one to whom we can just tell all what inside ( or we start searching any medium through which It can leave our heart nd mind , nd we JUST WANT SOMEONE TO BE THERE )....

I personally want to be that someone in their life who just want to take it out.....
I maybe not able to solve or understand what there pain is , what there problem is , what there fear is , but I will be  that someone whom they can tell nd just take out all that thing nd make them realize that u r not alone in it ....

but now I also know whats going maybe I doesn't feel what excatly u feel but I will be that container in which u can put all that nd feel relax nd I will try to found a solution of that....

Maybe sometimes I also feel low nd I doesn't listen your problem, ur  thoughts , ur pain or anything you want to share ......

don't feel bad about but feel great that the person who listen to us Is also not perfect nd he also goes to all that problem , pain , suffering in his life...

this make u realize that maybe now I can be that container for him nd this is where everything comes to an end which I desire or the beginning which I want....

by end I mean I found someone who has done the same dare nd maybe understand why I do that ( why I do that I will explain later )....

nd by begining I mean maybe u will understand that u r not alone , u r not the only one whose life Is going through bad phase ... nd really it make us haapy when we not alone ( it doesn't mean that we are happy to see other sad ).....

now what I said earlier that why I do that ( mean why I want to be that container of someone pain , problem , thoughts , moments of happiness nd joy ) .....
this is all becoz I have intention of selfish there .....

yeah I am selfish by doing that ....

I feel that maybe solving others pain or problem i can also get solution of my problems or maybe I can get solution for someone else in someone problem.....

yeah becoz sometime problem maybe different but solution can be same ...

becoz everyone has solution of their own problem ( yeah I really mean that )....
everyone has solution of their own problem but we don't accept it by ourself ( yeah bloody human nature )...

but we accept it by the other person.. becoz It make us realize that other person is understanding us nd we start feeling comfort so when the same solution we have , we get from other we accept  that becoz it make us  feel that yeah this  person really understand it ( becoz that person is telling u the same solution u already have )....

so that the reason of my selfishness nd I doesn't feel bad being selfish in this....

thats why WE JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LISTEN

-- Prateek Kumar agarwal ( thats me ;-) )